Any question?

I find it inappropriate to ask someone 'eh bila kau nak kahwin' or ' weh kau bila nak ada anak' when you can see obviously that particular person is really looking forward for it. 




Sape taknak bai? Kita hanya boleh mintak dan usaha, tapi Dia yang akan kasi, after all. 


At first, it may sounds like you are caring person asking this kind of question, or you just want to make that person happy, but please don't do it. Save it for yourself. You will make it worst by throwing a sack of pressure on their shoulder. You will never know how they feel. Just imagine you are in their shoes and try to walk, by then you can finally see the agony behind their fake smile. 




 A good friend/person will never asked this. Period. This is applicable to other circumstances as well. 

Xoxo.